http://radiantcourage.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] radiantcourage.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] trans_channel2011-07-24 11:18 pm
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What does one do to make sure a relationship works?
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morganknight: (oh really?)

[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-26 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
What's the most important thing in the world to this lucky guy?
morganknight: (thinking)

[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-26 05:02 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a good place to start. It's hard to speak generally, honestly. Everyone's just a little different.

[identity profile] radiantcourage.livejournal.com 2011-07-26 05:06 pm (UTC)(link)
They are, yeah.

What worked for you?
morganknight: (a little somber)

[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-26 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)
The most important thing, I think, is that we each accepted that there were certain things we held more important than each other. Fundamental beliefs.

It helped a lot that we shared a lot of common interests.

I won't also pretend that it didn't help that she was hot as hell.

[identity profile] radiantcourage.livejournal.com 2011-07-27 05:42 pm (UTC)(link)
That makes complete sense, once you get down to it.

Heh, well now -- I don't know if that applies to what I've got, but that has to be a nice thing to hear.
morganknight: (ladies)

[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-27 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, trust me, you've got it goin' on in the looks department. Guys might talk up the T&A, but fit and athletic is where it's at, no question.

Anyway, if you ever need some advice, it's a familiar path to me. I'll do what I can to help.

[identity profile] radiantcourage.livejournal.com 2011-07-28 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah... Thank you? I've never exactly heard anything like that before, Morgan.

And, I'll keep that in mind. Thank you on that part.
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[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-28 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Well... I won't pretend that a lot of guys prefer a girl who can't challenge them. Intellectually, or physically. They feel it's somehow demeaning or degrading to 'lose' to a girl, especially a girl who's supposed to be crazy about them. How can the girl like them if the girl is better than them?

That's insecurity and chauvinism talking. The best partner is not one who will gladly recognize you as superior, but challenge you to be their equal.

[identity profile] radiantcourage.livejournal.com 2011-07-29 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I get what you're saying there.

I think that he has challenged me to be his equal in terms of me being a Kamen Rider so that I don't end up not surviving the fight, as well as expand my horizons. He helped strengthen my interest in learning new things as well as things I did know, but wanted to know more about, as well.
morganknight: (grin)

[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-29 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
So long as you're both absolutely delighted the other notices you, hmm?
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