http://radiantcourage.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] radiantcourage.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] trans_channel2011-07-24 11:18 pm

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What does one do to make sure a relationship works?
morganknight: (thinking)

[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-28 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Well... I won't pretend that a lot of guys prefer a girl who can't challenge them. Intellectually, or physically. They feel it's somehow demeaning or degrading to 'lose' to a girl, especially a girl who's supposed to be crazy about them. How can the girl like them if the girl is better than them?

That's insecurity and chauvinism talking. The best partner is not one who will gladly recognize you as superior, but challenge you to be their equal.
morganknight: (grin)

[personal profile] morganknight 2011-07-29 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
So long as you're both absolutely delighted the other notices you, hmm?