With Alex, its one of those situations where he'll tell you when he's ready.

I know what you mean about how he acts though: its not that its a bother, but that he's very drawn into himself, been hurt very badly. But I think it'll happen slowly here, as long as he knows he has people to turn to. But as far as finding out why he's hurt, I think that will come in time. He asked you out, didn't he? He's already gaining ground.

Good, can't wait to see you!