I asked you once politely. Now if you're going to be sitting there lecturing about civility I suggest you exercise some.

Don't equate my willingness to put the war first as callousness. I'm just realistic about what has to be done, but that doesn't mean I'm going to bomb our own people just to kill the enemy. I want everyone one of my soldiers to come home if I can help it. I also have to accept that isn't always going to happen, and do my best to minimize those deaths. I hope that's the compassion you're speaking of because if not then I don't know how you would wage war.